I contend that a good part of “intelligence” is motivation; I also believe that we cannot motivate; we can only develop an environment when people can motivate themselves; thus I consider self-motivation to be a redundancy. And responsibility? It is really a very similar concept. Motivation is, in my opinion, our major responsibility; responsibility in a broader sence is, therefor, merely an extension of self to environment, specifically family, society and others, to the extent practical. Now there is an easily attacked statement – responsibility to what and to what extent? A personal thing, yes? but something of great importance.
So I am conflicted with discussions of what’s wrong with our school system that fail to address motivation and responsibility – of the individual students. Of course family and teachers have responsibility as well, and the combination is clearly the best solution for good results. That begins to get rather nebulous though, doesn’t it? it really is a team responsibility, isn’t it? And there is the rub; we have been told more than once not to expect results from a committee, and when everyone is responsible, no one is responsible. I am conflicted because I know how much taking responsibility by families in particular, and teachers to a lesser extent because the lack the same controls, means; yet I cannot accept that if those elements don’t exist the game is over. Especially when we make convincing arguments to students – to children – that this is so and provide them with the excuses that have been so common to our lives. So what is a child to do if parents and teachers leave it largely up to them to take hold of their futures? give up?
One has to recognize that the environment for rugged individuality and self-survival has changed; cities are not farms and frontiers, and life has assumed vast complexities with which we have not previously been faced. Much of government attempted assumption of control of such things is based on good supporting intentions, but it seems to me the more it attempts the worse things get, maybe because there is a tendency among people to give up their own attempts, which are clearly demanding, when others assume them for them. I cannot help but think of what I would refer to volunteer slavery, but I don’t think I want to open that can of worms.
But the more and more I am made aware of the problems we are beginning to recognize in our culture, the more I feel they are developing from abrogation of responsibility and inability (for whatever reason) to motivate ourselves to do for ourselves. Oh, yes, there are many mitigating cahllenges, but might not some of those stem from that original growing lack in our own immediate environments. Families are important, no question. Assistance from others is precious and if not essential surely tremendously helpful. But lack thereof somehow does not excuse individuals from taking control of their own lives. Too simple? Perhaps, but when they don’t even try?
My purpose is not to lecture – even to myself – but to suggest something to think about; I don’t think we do that enough – for the same reason: we don’t assume responsibility to do so. Is that not the basic cause of the slumping we are seeing in our culture? THINK about it.