We do love to revile them, don’t we? Crooks is a favorite, or as voters used to say about THEIR politicians, sure, but he’s our crook. Suggesting, of course, that being “a crook” is what we expect as long as it’s in our interest.
So what do we expect of politicians? More and more, which is probably why our opinion of them (being as it is comparison with expectations) has plunged so low. Let’s see, they should be impeccably honest, know everything, be able to discuss intelligently with the opposition – and win, movie-star attractive but in a way that squares with power image of a leader, and confidently humble.
The last is the one I would like to concentrate on: confidently humble. Who could possibly become, or even want to become, a politician is he/she didn’t have a towering ego? Narcissist has gotten a lot of play lately, but ego is always prevalent. Confidence is good – essential for any leader; humility is attractive and we like to see it when it is appropriate; but confident humility? That’s a tough one.
In fact I am painfully aware of my own duplicity on the subject: I detest arrogance, but respect the confidence of success; maybe I’d prefer humble confidence; that would be preferable. But look at what we are asking for. We seek people who are powerful enough, intelligent enough and confident enough to do the job; but expect him/her to be humble in the process. Oh, and we insist that he be smooth enough to convince us with erudite thought out logic of what we already believe; I think that’s called propaganda.
It’s worse than that actually. We seem to be bothered by success, at least as it is evidenced by wealth derived from it. Yet confronted with true humility most of us would not equate that with what we want in a politician. Down to earth maybe? Ability to discuss respectfully with people on any level. Even raving, emotional ideologues that won’t listen? Well…try that sometime.
I could go on, but it wouldn’t add much. What we expect is essentially unreasonable. In fact what we seem to want is a character designed by a movie script writer. We want fantasy. And because of that we often get fantasy – as we demand – since we reject reality if it is uncomfortable for us. So what we seek – demand? is impossible, which seems to bother us not at all. Political correctness prevails, even to our selection of leadership: tell us what we want to hear, and then make it happen they way we want it – without too many conflicting details please.